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Ep. 5: Are You Stuck in the Comparison Trap?

Do you ever feel that everyone else has it all together and you don’t? Do you gloat when you feel you have more to offer than others? Do you beat yourself up when you feel less valuable than others?

If so, today’s episode will be encouraging to you.

Today, I have Nikki Neu on the podcast to talk about comparison: what it comes from, how to identify it, and how to take steps toward freedom. Mrs. Neu is a gifted speaker and mom to 7, and she filled our conversation with truth and encouragement.

Today’s Question

How do I not compare myself to other girls? It seems like everyone out there is so much prettier than me.

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Resource Mentioned: “Why Her?” by Nicki Koziarz

Bible Verse Mentioned: 2 Corinthians 10:12

If you found the episode encouraging and want to read more on the topic, take a look at these posts:

What to Do When Jealousy is Ruining Your Friendships

Pridefulness: the Secret Sin Stealing Your Joy

Beauty and Self-Esteem: the Point We’re Missing (Pt. 2, A Change of Focus)

Let’s Talk

Have you struggled with comparison? How do you combat comparison in your own life?

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13 thoughts on “Ep. 5: Are You Stuck in the Comparison Trap?”

  1. Cannot wait to listen to this! I have been struggling a lot lately with jealousy and comparision . I have been comparing myself to other girls and saying to myself that “I’m ugly” and that no one likes me because of all the acne I have on my face . I need to get over being in the comparision trap and asking God to help me. Sorry for the long comment😊

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    1. Don’t apologize for the long comment haha. You should see the essays I write for some other bloggers’ comment sections. 😂 But aw girl, I’m so sorry to hear you’re having a struggle with comparison and feeling ugly. Know you’re not alone! I hope the episode helps and encourages you. Praying for you!!

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  2. Hello, Rachel. How are you? I don’t always comment on your works. I will today, though. You’re doing a great job for God’s kingdom. I enjoy listening to your stuff; your parents must be so proud of what you’ve become and are becoming. As for this episode, I’ll share it with my nieces. God be with you & thank you for using your gift to serve others to be more Christlike. Say hello to your little sister, adorable! She made me smile last time you two did an episode. She is a great thinker!

    – Thompson.

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    1. Hi, Thompson! Thank you so much for your kind words. It means the world to me:) God has taught me so much and I’m so grateful when he uses something I write to encourage others. Thanks for passing the episode along as well! Oh yes, hahaha, I love my sister so much. She has such good thoughts and we have so much fun together. So glad we could make you smile:) Thanks again for the comment.

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